We spent 5 nights in Kenmare last September and found that there was plenty to do. It's a good central starting point for lots of places. We explored the Ring of Kerry, the Beara Peninsula, Killarney National Park, Ross Castle, Muckross House and gardens, saw lots of magnificent scenery, fascinating ruins and historical sites, and heard great music. We covered a lot of miles, but it's a personal choice-we wanted to see as much as possible. You may choose to concentrate on just a couple of places to explore thoroughly.
I must agree with Meredith and Bit about Kenmare. I stayed there for a week last year and it was too short. Let the weather be your guide. If it is going to be nice get an early start from Kenmare and meet the boat. If not you will have plenty to do from Kenmare.
You are all right - what was I thinking?? We'll keep the 3 nights in Kenmare. Any lodging suggestions? Kenmare and Kinsale are the last two I need to find. For some reason, I just can't find one that is in our budget that appeals to me.